Saturday, February 26, 2011

Somber

By some fluke (and there are no flukes in the Universe), we heard yesterday from a friend in the Bemidji (Minnesota) area. While she called about an upcoming wedding, she had heard that a house had burned and 1 person was killed earlier that morning in what appeared to be our old neighborhood in Grand Forks. She gave Richard the address.

When Melanie and I returned home, we quickly figured it out: To our horror, we knew that's Jim and Teresa's house. Jim and Teresa (and their girls) were our neighbors for upwards of 20 years. That's a lot of growing time. That also included the Flood of 1997 where we mucked out basements and mutually helped neighbors and friends (especially of the older variety). Besides being neighbors, Jim was our loyal optician. He's even helped me out down here.

How could that be? The 3 C's headed straight to the Grand Forks Phone Book, checked out the Grand Forks Herald on line, saw video clips on KVLY and WDAZ. We could make no mistake about the firefighter's photo inside the once beautiful green window frame of their house. We called former neighbors Al and Mary next door to us and across the street from Jim and Teresa.

Details are not important. Jim made it out. Teresa didn't. Their 3 dogs also perished. Jim was initially hospitalized and in satisfactory condition. The house appeared totalled. Their dear daughters should be home by now.

We've been pretty somber around here these last 24 hours. The tears flow. We are so sad for them, for their family and for the transition that will be ahead for all of them. We can't do much at this end. But we can surround them with love and prayers.

Life is a gift. Media is reminding folks to make sure smoke detectors are in good working order. I am reminded that yes, we do feel another's pain. That is part of the human condition. We are all connected. That is the beauty and strength of our shared humanity. We are so grateful that Jim and Teresa have been our neighbors. To know them is to love them. We are richly blessed. Jim and their family and friends will be in our thoughts and prayers for some time to come.

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